Monday, January 23, 2006

In Memory of John Jackson Roberts


John Jackson Roberts
[1947-2006]

Survived by:
former wife Nancy;
daughters, Pamela, Gretchen and Rachel;
grandchildren Jake, Neeley and Luke;
father James and step-mother Mary Jane;
siblings Dianne, Scott and Judith (below).


John died of wounds sustained during an accident while jogging on a highway in Dubai, United Arab Emirates. John had recently been named Project Manager for Parsons Brinckerhoff on The Palms Jumeriah, one of the largest and most exciting infrastructure projects in the world, which involves the creation of a huge manmade island that will host luxury residences and hotels.

John was managing PB’s work in overseeing the development of infrastructure for the island. According to Tim Judge, PB’s Principal-in-Charge on the Palm Jumeirah project, “John earned the respect of the entire team including our client, and was instrumental in driving the Palm project forward into an exciting new phase.”

John’s association with the company began in 1973 with the PB-led joint venture on Atlanta’s MARTA (Metropolitan Atlanta Rapid Transit Authority) project. He was a Resident Engineer and worked on the King Memorial Station, the East Line aerial structure, and the West End Station. He was PB’s Program Director for two consecutive five-year contracts with the Florida Department of Transportation for construction management services on Florida’s Turnpike, and was named Construction Manager of the Year by Parsons Brinckerhoff Construction Services in 1997. Chris Reseigh, who worked with John on MARTA, called him “one of our construction stars” who “was very close to all of us who worked in Atlanta” and did “a terrific job on his recent international assignments.”

Extensively traveled, John was Project Manager for a PB contract as the Employer’s Representative on a design-build project for a toll road in the Philippines and Special Consultant and Resident Engineer on the Taiwan High Speed Rail Project.

John was a graduate of Georgia Tech; he then served in Vietnam from 1969-1970 as a lieutenent in the US Army.

During his career as a civil engineer, John traveled extensively to the Phillipines, Korea, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Laos, Thailand and Vietnam.


Always in amazingly good shape, he rarely looked his age. Since High School, John was an avid runner, competing in races across the world. He enjoyed taking long range bike tours, especially in Southeast Asia.

fatheranddaughters
[ John with his beautiful daughters, Rachel, Pamela and Gretchen ]

He died pursuing his passion.

[John with grandson, Jake.]



98 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is very sad news and I am very much at a loss for words, except that I want to say John was amazing and he does have many friends all around the world and I consider myself very fortunate to have been one of them. We will all miss him very much and our prayers are with you now.
Regards;
2 of John's Taiwan friends

8:02 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our condolences to you on the death of your Uncle John Roberts. We are
deeply saddened to hear of this shocking news.

John was a member of an annual mountain biking group. He led us to
North Vietnam in 2004, and last year we went to Sri Lanka. I just
happen to have a shot of him from the last day and a group shot of
everyone who was with John in Sri Lanka on my computer so here they
are. John and I biked next to each other over many miles of the Sri
Lanka trip, and I can see him clearly in my head as though it was
yesterday, I remember telling him what a great example he was to all
of us, and how we all aim to be in as good a shape as him when we are
sixty. I am sure as we recover form this shocking news, there will be
many more tributes, from all of his friends.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

Our condolences,

Julian in Taipei.

8:05 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and all the people whose lives have been touched by John, as they learn of this sad news.

It was an honor to have known him, he truly was an amazing man, and we are lucky to have shared some of his adventures. We look forward to paying due tribute to a great friend in the days to come as we recover from the shock of this sad news.

May God rest his soul.

We send you all our love and prayers, Julian and Vivienne Buckeridge in Taipei.

8:10 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I worked with John at Parsons at the Turnpike office. We heard about John's accident this morning. We were all so stunned and sadden by the news.
John enjoyed life to the fullest.
He was such an adventurous guy. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to you and John's family. I know he was so proud of his girls and that he was a grandfather. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

8:12 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a friend of John's, living in Shanghai. I have known John for only 3-4 years, but we became friends very quickly, as a matter of fact, he was one of the few guys from Taiwan who came to my bachelor party in Thailand last year.

My wife was also quite fond of John, and we will miss him terribly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now. If there is something we can do on this end of the planet, please do not hesitate to ask.

8:14 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is just such devastating news for so many of us in Asia. I didn’t know John that well, but what I can say is that John always seemed to have such a positive and optimistic outlook on life, and he enjoyed it to its fullest.

He was one of those kinds of people that you wanted around you at any party or event because he just exuded such good vibes. This is no doubt an incredible loss for you and your family and my prayers are with you. The gates of heaven will welcome his arrival.

John was a great man and will be a lasting memory for us all.

8:18 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was one of the "good guys" in this world.

Time and a smile for all.

Will be sadly missed by all those he came into contact with.

Our thoughts go out to his family.

8:18 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had the gift of knowing John since November 2002. He was an incredible man, and friend.

He ran 31 runs with Hsinchu Hash House Harriers (we run the last Saturday of every month).

Their are many pictures of him on our site: www.hsinchuhash.com. I am still in a bit of shock, but am sure that I will write more to you later.

8:21 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

JR ... My Mentor, My Champion..

There are few people that you meet in your life that strike you so hard that they change your own life.
John was such a guy...

His modesty, patience, humour and 'joie de vivre' has been a great inspiration to me and all who's life he touched.

JR... The world doesn't seem complete without you running past my window.

See you later, Major

8:24 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is indeed an awful tragic event and I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling.

John had a huge number of friends, and I am honored to count myself as one of them. From our bike trips I've picked some photos of John you may want to put on your site: Pictures of John at his best, with his friends doing the things he loved.

In India at 5000m on the Tibetian plateau -2003

Lunching at 4500m -2003

Northern Laos -2002

On the river boats in Vietnam - 2004

Chilling by the fire Vietnam -2004

Group shot in Sri Lanka 2005

Grand Hotel Bar Sri Lanka 2005

My deepest condolences. John will be missed.

8:30 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I met John here in Taiwan and I was always impressed by his character of strength and modesty. As a veteran myself (of a different war in the south) John and I are, like all others who have fought in wars, part of a special brotherhood... a band of brothers. In the words of Shakespeare, "From this day to the ending of the world we in it shall be remembered. We lucky few, we band of brothers. For he who today sheds his blood with me shall be my brother."

Brothers forever. See you in a bit.

8:48 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Dianne

John was a great guy in many ways. Fun to run and bike with, and also a true inspiration to all who met him.

With all my thoughts and prayers

Scott Stevens
Taiwan

8:56 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was a good friend and an inspiration to all of the Hsinchu Hash. It is such a tragedy.

Brooks Hurd
Colorado Springs

9:05 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Didn't know John all that well but the few times I met him he was always friendly and was a "straight shooter". Everyone in THSRC liked him and are a bit less today with his passing.

Mike

9:27 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lesley chen( John's girlfriend in taipei)

i met him in 4Q2 bar in hsin chu March 23,2004. A man came over and talked to me. He introduced himself: My name is John from U.S.A. i am 57 years old. i just signed another contract today to stay in taiwan another year.I told u my age, i don;t want to lie to u.

i always remember that he talked slowly,honest, and looked like a gentlement in that night.(He is a gentlement always)

i had fun with him for past 18 months when he was in taiwan. He was supposed to leave taiwan dec,2005 after THSRC asked him to stay another six months. BUt in Aug, he told me the job in dubai he likes very much and he wants to get that job. he really works hard and like challange.And he promised me to visit him in 2006 chinese new year when the date september
26,2005.This is the only time he didn;t make his promise to me.

We went to Guam, Hk, Green island, Ponghu, and weekend drave van to hash or short hiking, or invite d his buddy Matt and Mark,Bunny to house. I like to cook with him too. Espeically spegatti he makes with the spicy 100% sauce from his daughters. THat is really spicy. I guess he likes evey kind of food, and he always eat all the food i cook, even not tasty good.

He is attractive, sporty, good temper,good listener.........., i couldn;t belive what i heard today. cause i just got his mail Jan 15, to said he works hard there and he wants his friend BOB to help him that project.

We talked chirstmas time and happy new year. At least he had great time in dubai or so in past three months and met new friends there.

It is really pity, can not see u again. But i have a lot of pictures of u can share ur family and ur friends, and all the memories will put in my mind too.

THanks for honey giving me nice time in my life,and i believe u are in Heaven with pretty Angle now. Long hairs Angle, u don;t like short hairs.

Loves,
ur baby doll
lesley

9:32 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Damnit!!!... things just are not supposed to happen like this.

We've all lost a great friend, a surrogate father, a mentor, a leader.

I personally admired John greatly and I know I was not alone. He will be missed terribly.

To the Robert's family: please contact me if there is anything I can do to help you. My email address is jgiles@sprynet.com.

9:33 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John's family,

I met John at THSRC and we worked together on and off for the last 4.5 years. In this painful period for all of you may I wish God's comfort and peace be with you.

Blessings,

Erik Froonhof

10:23 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also knew John (Major) through the Hsinchu Hash House Harriers. He was a man of incredible character and left an indelible mark on me in the relatively short time that I knew him. Always energetic, he was a charismatic leader and took responsibility for things others hadn't even noticed needed to be done.

I will never forget him, nor the example he's made by the way he's lived!

Warmest Regards to all of John's family & best wishes to you as you deal with this tragedy.

10:41 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My heartfelt condolences to you on the death of an amazing man. John was someone that I, like many others, looked up to. I first got to know him through the hash in Taiwan, but one of my fondest memories of John was bumping into him in the Philippines while I was on a rugby tour - he’d just been posted there following his first stint in Taiwan. He said he missed his friends in Taiwan and was happy to see a familiar face. He drank with us and said he’d come and support our team at the tournament the next day – after a few beers people always say that, but they never show. But early the next morning John was there to support us, and I think that says a lot about the kind of guy he was. He was nearly 30 years my senior, but it never felt like there was an age gap between us. What a legend. I’ll miss you mate.

10:56 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bonnie,
It's been a while not to hear from "Uncle John". I kept asking Wad if he got any news about him. Until last week,we got a phone call from John,he sounds happy. When I watch the Travel Chanel or talking about the "Palm Project",I always tell people proundly having a friend(John) doing the job he is doing now. I'm so honored to have friend like him.
And...We promise to visit him very soon since Wad & me both dicede some travelling plan this year.
Still can't believe this awful tragedy. I recall so many sweat memory about you and will keep your smile forever.
I pray to the god you that you are happy in the heaven and look after all the people you love.
love,
Bonnie xxx

12:59 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Roger(Free and Sleezy): I like John. He was a very nice person and always looked energetic. I was so stunned to hear this.... You are a great guy, John.

Christine(Mud Slide): I will always remember your smile, John. I will always keep in mind your warmest hug and kiss. I will never ever forget that image when we ran together and strugled to climb up the hill. love you, John!

2:39 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I worked with John at the Turnpike with Parson Brinkerhoff. He was an extremely intelligent man. I lived with his daughter Gretchen while she was at Nova.

He was a fun and personable person. I can rememeber the fun we had at his Birthday Party that was held at his house in Boca.

It is hard to believe that John just sent an fantastic email a few weeks ago. In turn I emailed him back asking about jobs.

Gretchen, Rachel and Pam my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

He is blessed and he is in Heaven.

I can be reached at bridgethoudek@yahoo.com.

6:25 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Pamela,Gretchen, Rachel, and Nancy,

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I know you all have many special memories of him and I know you will miss him greatly.
May the Lord give you all His supernatural peace and comfort during this hard time. We are praying for you daily. God bless you all!
Jennifer and Phillip
Philippians 4:7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

7:59 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Greetings To John's family and friends,

I knew John for all of his time in Taiwan and I guess that I irritated him sometimes during my visits to Hsin Chu station but even when the news I had for him was bad he took it on the chin in his straight forward manner and he "walked the walk". John was a good man and a good engineer he stood up to all political pressure and design lunacy on the station but never lost his integrity. His loss makes this world a sadder place. Rest in Peace John. From Tony Hill in Spain. mrsafety@mycostablanca.info

8:47 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Rachel, I am so sorry. I just want you to know that I love you and I am here for you if you ever need me. I am praying for you and your family. Your dad was very special and I'm sure he will be missed, especially by you. I'm so sorry, but just look at and always remember how many lives your dad has touched. I love you, Rachel! Please call me when you feel like getting together.

10:19 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

bhoudek@millerconstruction.com

I am so sorry to hear about this loss. I just got an email from him talking about his adventures. I worked with John at the Turnpike and lived with his daughter Gretchen while she was at Nova. The entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.

10:19 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

keith@seyonasia.com

Please accept my condolences. I thoroughly enjoyed the rides I went on with your wonderful brother and wish we could do it all again.

Peace to you and your family.

10:20 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

There are hash gatherings focused on John happening all around the globe today.. Hsinchu, Boston, Taipei, London, Shanghai, Beijing... and the list is growing. Call the obvious suspects in your village to find out where.

For those in Taipei, we will tip a few in John’s memory tonight at O’Ginny’s @ 7PM.

Also note that a Skype conversation with Hsinchu Hashers around the world, and further discussion with China Hash GM and TM, resulted in turning the 1600th into the John Roberts aka MFU Memorial Hash Weekend.

This event will take place on the weekend of March 4th and 5th, so please alert overseas friends that this is a great reason to plan a trip to Taiwan to gather in memory of a good friend and major hash contributor.

More details on that event are soon to come.

See you then.

10:22 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was deeply loved, respected and admired within our "band of brothers" that rode annually. He was a rare soul and will be missed greatly and remembered as long as we can gather and share tales of rides, runs and stunts past.

Like many on this list, I received the news mid morning Asia time, quietly checking e-mails in the middle of a meeting at my plant in rural Thailand. My stomach dropped. I walked out, changed into my running clothes and spent an hour running and walking under the hot sun amongst the thousand shades of green across the paddies and wetlands saying a prayer for John and thanking God for the opportunity to count your brother as a friend.

With great condolences...

10:24 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

redden@singnet.com.sg

"As some in our group no doubt heard The Major say .. "I wanted to hare a ride .. cause you never know if you'll be aound next year..."

Wad, Here's a shot for you.

10:25 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

As one of John's MANY Asia friends, Bike riding friend and fellow hasher for many years- please accept my families sincere condolences, upon hearing this awful news. As John would no doubt want, the many friends of his, here in Asia, will attempt to balance this awful tragedy with the many MANY memories of joy, laughter and great times we all had with John. He will be greatly missed but always remembered for his warmth, humor and consistent friendship.

I will happily search out some photo's of John, from our many bike trips and remote trips to add to his memorial website. Until then please take care and know John was a brother to many of us here in Asia, a true friend and respected professional.

With deepest condolences...

10:26 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have known John thru my work in Taiwan. He was one of the best I have met and always so enthusiastic and positive about all things. We will miss him. But I am confident he is busy enlightening all around him where he is now.

I know I am not alone in saying that he will be missed but we all have great memories of John and all he did for so many.. so I am sure he would prefer for us to be happy to have shared times and life with him.... I know I am..

All my best to the family...

10:27 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

From one of the many friends from Taiwan, located in Bangkok:

Shocked by the very sad news I received this morning, I do want to express my sincere condolences.

Employed in the same industry as John and also been privileged to have shared precious moments while jogging and biking on remote trails, as well as having lot's of laughs together during many fun occasions, I am very sad to have lost an amazing friend.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

10:29 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John loved what he called "our band of Brothers" the guys that went off on the bike trip every year; and we all love John. He was kind, and big hearted, and always looking on the bright side. He was such a positive guy, never complaining that the trail was too long, or the beer was too warm. We just finished a great trip to Sri Lanka with John and i can still see him sitting in our circle in a clean white t-shirt, grinning from ear to ear at the goings on of our group, or trying to talk louder than anyone else on the train to tell his joke, just enjoying every minute of it.

I am happy in a sad sort of way for John, that he died while out on a run. He was a running sort of guy, and I'll bet he's looking down now with that big smile of his and saying, "at least I went out running!"

We will miss him, and as Darryl Bai said to me on the phone tonight, I feel a little older without John around.

Best Wishes...

10:33 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was the best boss i ever worked for.I also considered him a friend and was hoping to go out to see him in the next couple of years.He got a lot out of his life and i was always interested in hearing where he was going next and what he was up to.I'm sure he will be greatly missed.My thoughts and prayers go out to Pam Rachel Gretchen and the rest of the family.love Mark B

11:27 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nancy and I are devastated by this sad news. John has had a special
place in our hearts for almost 20 years. I have two homebrews in the
'fridge that I'll drink tonight in a toast to John, his life and his
accomplishments. I'll post more thoughts on the blog website. I have
emails from John dating back to 2001. Here is the link to his Nov. 2004
mountain bike trip to NW Vietnam along the China-Vietnam border:
http://www.pbase.com/biketrip11/2004_vietnam_bike_trip

"Art will always be Art." - Goethe

12:42 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so shocked at the news of John’s passing. My deepest condolences go out to you and John’s entire family. I was truly privileged to have worked closely with him for 1½ years in the Philippines, and to have been considered one of his many friends. I will never forget his outgoing personality, his generosity, and the positive attitude with which he faced everything he did. He knew how to bring out the best in people. I never knew a straighter man than John. I was sorry that our assignment in Manila ended when it did. One of my great experiences in Southeast Asia was climbing Mt. Kinabalu (4095 m. or 13,432 ft. in elevation) in northern Borneo with John in April of 2001. The memories of that spectacular climb will be all the more meaningful to me from now on. John, may God watch over your kind soul forever.

12:43 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our family first met John when were spending a weekend in Helen, Ga., back in Jan. 1987. I was preparing to run the Hog Pen Hill Climb. John and a friend needed someone to carry their dry clothes to Hog Pen Gap, about 10 miles up the north Georgia mountain, which was the finish area. The fog was so dense we couldn't see more than a few feet ahead or off the side of the mountain. We got to the top, gathered around a blazing fire, drank a few beers and waited. Nance, my wife, made a wrong turn and arrived much later -- we were nearly frozen. All seven of us, including the three children, crowded into the Camry and slowly drove back down the mountain, avoiding the very slowest of runners/walkers.

The time at Hog Pen Gap -- I still have the t-shirt -- gave me time to visit with John. We discovered that we both were homebrewers. From there we became long-training buddies (he helped me prepare for my first sub-3:00 marathon), shared homebrews and confided in each other as friends. Nance loved John as much as I, and she really had the hots for him; she lovingly called him "ol' blue eyes". We cherish the memories. As he neared 60, John remained a handsome son of a gun.

As this tragedy reminds us... love the one your with, love the ones you're not with and tell them regularly that you love them, and love each and every day for the joy that it offers.

Art & Nance Bowman
Lawrenceville, GA

1:22 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am truely saddend by this news. I had the good fortune to know John in Taiwan and later our annual bike trips. He was a very well liked man and always a source of a laugh and good cheer. He had the wonderful warm smile ,that was infectious to all who were around him. He will surely be missed -please accept our condolences for this tragic loss.

1:38 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Major FU, Major FU, he’ll give you an option or two !

We will miss you John.

1:39 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My first encounter with Major (I never called him either 'John' or 'FU") was at a Hsinchu Hash run a few years ago. He had walked eye-first into a sharp branch early in the run and had returned to the cars to put a towel on his face to soak up the blood. When he removed the towel to give me a look, I said, 'You're going to the doctor." We got some ice from the beer cooler to try to keep the swelling down then he got in my car and we headed towards town. He never once mentioned his own predicament, just kept apologizing to me for any inconvenience caused.

A few weeks ago as I finished a China Hash run in Hsinchu, Johnny Wad (Mark W.) said to me, "Hey, with all that weight you lost, you're looking like The Major." Most people probably wouldn't want to be told that they resembled someone ten years older than themselves, but I was honored. My big worry was that Major might somehow find out he looked like me and be insulted.

Major was calm in the chaos of Taiwan. Quiet among all the brash Hashers and a man supremely confident in his own abilities.

We've lost a Good One and he will be missed.

My deepest sympathies to his family.

- Richard McLellan
Hsinchu, Taiwan

3:28 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John's family - my deepest condolences, my prayers and deepest sympathies go out to you.

Like many others, I too met John literally along the trail of life. He never ceased to amaze me with his energy and passion for life. A huge cyclist and runner myself, we had an immediate connection, as do most people who were fortunate enought to meet John. There is nobody who could ever not like John.

Major - I miss you already...I will remember...forever...thank you my friend....

4:26 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am one of Gretchen's friend's, and when I hear something sad has happened to a close friend that I care for and love very much, it breaks my heart....Gretchen, I am here for you. You,and Pamela, Rachel and the rest of your family are in my prayers...
sometimes life takes us in different directions...
I like to think of friends as "stars". They are far away, but always there. Now your dad is among the stars looking down upon you and watching over you......

5:54 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I first met John, he was recommended by Catherine to act as an extra for a film being shoot by THSRC.  The second time I met him was when he became grandfather. I interviewed him for the CMD (Constrction Management Division) Newsletter.  I still remember that he was so excited to receive the great news of the birth of a grandchild .

John was the Resident Engineer of THSRC Hsin Chu Station.
 
John was always so interested and enthused by the  local festivals, culture and people. The team members of S220 and THSRC colleagues will always remember John for his leadship, kindness and friendship.
 
Please accept the condolences from all of THSRC.

In memory of John, I will edit the Chinese and English versions of the Interview on next issue of THSRC Newsletter. The THSRC's film will be airmailed to John's family. My e-mail address is corina_lee@thsrc.com.tw.

8:49 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was an RE with John on THSRC for a few years and am now in Hong Kong. I was very sad to hear the news just now. John was one of the best guys to be with there and I always looked forward to a few beers with him after our monthly meetings, despite the fact we had difficulty at times with our accents, me being from Scotland and him speaking an entirely different form of English! We got on well, which was easy with John. I never knew any of his family of course, but I hope it will be some comfort to them that so many people all around the world held John in such high regard and will miss him, but will also remeber him with great affection.
John McKinlay

9:38 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just received the sad news upon return from a weeks holiday in Africa.
I will remember the happy times spent in the bar and the great farewell send off party with John all of his friends.
Our sincere sympathy to all family and friends from the staff and customers at 4Q2.
God bless you John

11:00 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John,
You will be missed but you will not be forgotten.
In such a short period of time I learned alot from you by carefully watching how you spoke to others. With you as the manager to so many I'm sure we all felt that you were by far one of the easiest persons to approach when there was anything to discuss.
Your positive out-look & attitude helped us alot here- more than you can imagine.
Thank you for all you did.

5:50 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was so shock to know this bad news when i make the call back to taiwan even two days alredy that i just seat here and looking all the pic of you and the words just coulndt even come out i guess i must be too sad.....
And some friend the note they write it. that was just like the movie that all flashed on my mind,i was so pround that i had be share those lovely with you...
my dear teddy bear...
thank you for all wonderful memory that you bring to my life
me and ''junior'' will always miss you .......
XXX

9:32 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I remember when Paula and I met John. It was Nancy's newest boyfriend. I think it was the fall of '66. We continued to party hard for the rest of our college days. We had a great time....... We made a lot of memories and John and Nancy married 6 months after Paula and me.

We were both commissioned into the Corps of Engineers and traveled the world. When we could, Paula and I always got back together with John and Nancy in Atlanta.

John, I will miss you. My memories of you will always be near.

10:32 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I never met him but he sounds like a great guy. Please accept my condolences. PM Miami, Anna Hernandez

1:27 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Our deepest condolences to John’s family. Most of us at PB consider fellow employees to be family members, no matter where they are in the world. John will be a missed member of our family as well.
PBWorldNet Group, Denver

1:29 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I never met John or knew of him till today. It is sad that I am introduced to this wonderful life under such unfortunate circumstances. I know of him now through the great praises of Thomas O'Neill and this website. Not only did his life and work experiences catch my attention, but for all of us who have lost someone so dear I could do nothing else but send my sincerest sympathy and strength to his friends and family. With this introduction I am truly motivated to live a life as fulfilled as he did his. God Bless.
Melissa, PB Orange, CA

1:59 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to John and his family. It's very sad to hear about his tragedy. Rest in Peace!

2:14 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I knew John as a member of Boca Raton, Florida Toastmasters...

Dear John...Our planet will be less vibrant...less elegant...less charmed without you. But our heavens will have a new shining star...named John Roberts.
Look up...he's there!

2:56 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

God bless you...John

5:31 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My condolences to you on the death of your Uncle John Roberts.I am deeply saddened to hear of this shocking news.


Sundar.
PB Power, Abu Dhabi, UAE

9:34 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I attended PB's PM training classes two years ago in Taipei when John served as a lead lecturer. And was most impressed with his persuasive style of speeches.

John, you'll be remembered.

Kuan Chiu
PBI, Taipei, Taiwan

9:47 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My sincere condolances to all his family, I knew John from THSRC and we met on numerous occasions when he came to our site at C240 around Miaoli in Taiwan and I showed him around the project a few times and he was always so enthusiastic about all aspects of the constuction and particularly the tunnels and their problems, he offered advice that was sound and always acted upon,eventually he left the project to come to the Palm project in Dubai and he telephoned me to ask if I would join him to come and look after and help with the tunnel side of things, of course with his great personality and joy for all things it didnt take me long to ask for release from THSRC to allow me to join him and the team, I have only been here for 8 weeks now and his real energy and drive and happy approach was very special to see, then to have this news thrust upon all of us is very hard to take indeed, I had the utmost respect for John as all did who came into contact with him and I will remember his manner and the man himself, if its any consolation at all to all who knew him he was very happy here and often would talk about finishing this project and then onto the next one, a very special man and one who will be greatly missed by all.

2:21 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John's Family,

Having received a message this morning regarding John I felt I just had to write something to you. I know that we don’t know each other, but our lives are linked through circumstances. I lost somebody very close to me in a motorbike accident about 8 months ago now.
I’d lost older family members previously through illness and old age, but nothing ever prepared me for the sudden, unexpected loss of a loved one.

There is nothing I can really say to you that can really make a difference… it really does just takes time. You don’t ever forget them, you don’t ever stop loving them… you just find a way of coping with life without them and remembering all the beauty that was.

Please accept my love and pass on my love to all affected by your loss

I AM NOT THERE
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.


Love and Blessings… Jamie

2:25 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This was written in 1910 after the death of another king among men.

Death is nothing at all

I have only slipped away into the next room

I am I and you are you

Whatever we were to each other

That we are still

Call me by my old familiar name

Speak to me in the easy way you always used

Put no difference into your tone

Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

Laugh as we always laughed

At the little jokes we always enjoyed together

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me

Let my name be ever the household word that it always was

Let it be spoken without effort

Without the ghost of a shadow in it

Life means all that it ever meant

It is the same as it ever was

There is absolute unbroken continuity

What is death but a negligible accident?

Why should I be out of mind

Because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you for an interval

Somewhere very near

Just around the corner

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost

One brief moment and all will be as it was before

How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!



Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918, Canon of St Paul's Cathedral

Delivered in St Paul's Cathedral on Whitsunday 1910, while the body of King Edward VII was lying in state at Westminster

5:02 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was so unique - - an engineer who wasn't even remotely a "geek". He was cosmolitan, yet humble and easy to talk with; serious, but with a wicked sense of humor; and really Southern.

I greatly enjoyed his friendship during the nine or ten years we worked together at Florida's Turnpike.

6:27 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John's Family - Another tribute to John from two friends who worked with him in the early-mid 70s on the MARTA Project. Although we didn't maintain verbal contact, we followed John's accomplishments through mutual friends, or the PB "Notes", and now e-mail. He was a friend to all, a true professional with integrity and character, and kind. We are honored to have had him touch our lives.

Dave and Mary Ann Gobelle

6:36 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John's Family - Deeply sorry for you at John's golden age. You all be blessed. It's a big loss of PB family. May John happy together with God.

7:10 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I met 'The Major' through the Hsinchu Hash in 2003. Just one of life's all round good guys. Condolences to his family and, indeed, to all who knew him.

Mark Payne (aka 'Dick with Ears')

8:21 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is with deep sorrow i have learnt of John fatal accident i worked with John on the Taiwan High Speed Rail Project were he was my Resident Engineer and attended his Farwell party prior to his move to UAE.
I have just arrived in the UAE myself but with having to spend time looking for accommodation and working the long hours here in Dubai i had not had time to contact him here. Please convey my sincere condolences to his family at this sad time

8:38 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is very hard to believe it this news. Let me express on behalf of our family and Russian community in Hsinchu our sincere condolence to John's family, John was our good friend and great man.

8:43 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please accept our sympathy and also extend it to Jimmy, Judith, Scott and Mary Jane and all of John's family.

10:41 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

rhett leary said . . .
John was a great teammate for the Turnpike Construction team. He always offered friendship and a sense of humor to everyone he met. His early passing is a lesson to us all to count each new day as a blessing and trust in our Lord to guide us through it until we are called home . .

11:33 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Rachel,Pamela,Gretchen, and Nancy,

We send our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy for the loss of your Dad. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow that you are feeling right now. I pray that God will keep you and comfort you during this time.

We have very fond memories of your family and ours growing up together. Softball games, basketball games, or just laughing and talking where ever we happen to run into each other.

The last time I remember seeing your Dad was at Brookwood High School. He was home for a few weeks and had come to watch a game. He had a smile on his face and I could just tell that he loved talking about you girls. He seemed so proud of all of you.

Let the peace which comes from Christ rule your hearts settling all questions that arise in your minds... Colossians 3:15

With Love,
Beverly & Johnny Reeves

1:44 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This has been the hardest week of my life but the response from each of you has been so meaningful and helpful in dealing with Dad's death. My emotions have been all over, tonight I am just plain sad. The important thing is that Dad is remembered by all of the wonderful things that have been said about him. He did love the three of us but he also loved the times he shared with his fellow hashers and "band of brothers". He loved all of his friends in Florida and his friends from Georgia as well. He loved his family in Tennessee and so many others who came into his life. He was a quite man with a loud spirit. He loved us and we loved him.

Gretchen
(his middle daughter)

5:03 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

In addition to the bike trip that John lead in Vietnam in '04, he also took the time, while he was organizing his move to Dubai, to help me set up a similar Vietnam ride...just a few months ago in Nov. Based on the friendship John established with our local guide,
Thang, it made for a fantastic trip…unfortunately I didn’t get a chance to tell John.
Lots of great pictures show John’s big smile, I thought the email below, Nov'05, kind of showed some of his big heart too!
___________________________________
Tim,

Thang was always fair and trustworthy with me. He gave me a budget figure beforehand. We finalized at the end of the trip because there are always unexpected costs. He did not charge for his time, so I gave him more than he asked for our trip plus a tip for his drivers and other helpers.

Good luck and let me know how your trip goes.

John
________________________________

Sincerely,
Tim Lauer
Taiwan

8:34 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I only knew John since October 2005 when we both started on Palm Jumeirah, Dubai, but in that short timw I found him to be a very friendly and approachable person both socially and at work.
As a team leader he gave everyone a great sense of belonging and team spirit.
A hard act to follow, and he will be missed by myself and all that have known him on the Palm. My thoughts go to all his family and friends that he leaves behind.

Martin Bayly

9:13 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My heart full and heavy at the same time. All the friends who have shared with our family their personal experiences with my amazing brother, our family thanks you. I was 27 months older than my brother. We had a connection which I do not have with any other person. I will miss him in more ways than I can count at this time. To my amazing brother, I simple loved you.
Your sister, Dianne

10:23 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Family and friends of John,

I was shocked to receive the sad news about John. I knew John when he lived in Boca Raton, Florida. He joined the Boca Raton Toastmasters club and added a lot to our club by serving as president for one year. He and I became good friends as we shared a love of scuba diving and travel.

John's easy going, friendly southern demeanor and big smile were a great addition to our club. Everyone enjoyed John's speeches and friendship. I especially enjoyed his email accounts of Asian travel and bike trips. He invited me to join him, but my vacation time was being spent on scuba dive trips. I invited him to join me and my dive club on some Asian dive trips, but the timing was wrong. We enjoyed John's trip back to Boca and his visit with us a couple of years ago. His stories of Asia were very interesting. Like everyone else, we will miss him very much.

Gary Sharp

10:26 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello Diane,

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your brother. He was a dear friend in many ways for over 12 years. The last 8 years have been through distant communication but I always felt he cared about me. The emails he sent to everybody were so amazing. I saved his articles and pictures through the years. He lived a very full life. My condolensces to his family, such beautiful daughters, whom he cherished. John will always be remembered for the kindness he extended and his charming smile. He was such a great neighbor to me. I would like to have a mass for him in this area, Ascension Catholic Church on Federal Highway, Boca Raton - the next available date is the week of March 20th, which would be the 21st , or a day or two after that. St. Lucy's in Highland Beach is booked until August. Are there family members in the area? If there is another date that is appropriate, please let me know. I can send an email to the list of people and call people I know he had been in touch with.

You and the rest of his family are in my thoughts and prayers,

Love,

Ann Jakits

Our family thanks you, Ann.
Dianne

11:54 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Family and Friends of John Roberts,

I have found in my life that even though distance can separate friends, those friends tend to stay connected if each brings and gives something to the other. John Roberts and I first met and worked together while working for the Florida's Turnpike - I am the president and owner of Scheda Ecological Associates, and Parsons Brinckerhoff Construction Services was (and still is) our client. I will never know what I brought to the friendship, but for me, John was a mentor and the kind of engineering consultant that every other should attempt to emulate. John conducted business in a thoughtful, straight-forward, looking-ahead for the client kind of way; as a subconsultant, I appreciated this very much and sought to know John and learn more.

One of the last times I saw John face to face (1999), we were working on a problem on Suncoast Parkway (40+ miles of new LA toll roadway near Tampa, Florida). We got talking about my upcoming wedding, and I invited him to an evening gathering of our wedding out-of-town guests that Thursday night. It was to be held at a local waterside bar, and when John was working in Tampa, he was working out of town too. So instead of going to his hotel room that night, he joined our gathering. And that's how I'll remember him, meeting complete strangers, with his easy demeanor and conversation; finding common ground with so many in the group on the subjects of engineering, running, anything; and completely enjoying a wonderful evening outside overlooking Tampa Bay.

It's no wonder that he has left a group of friends in every corner of the world that he has touched.

With sincerest condolences to his family and "extended family" members,

Sandy Scheda Klaus

2:33 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Dianne,

It is so difficult to put into words how much I grieved receiving this e-mail just now, and I know your grief is far greater than mine. I didn't know John as an adult except for reconnecting with him many years ago at the Henderson family reunion. Nevertheless, I ALWAYS adored him and of course, now wish I had had more opportunites to get to know him better. You are right, he was an amazing person!

Dear heart, please know how much I am with you right now in spirit and wish I could be there in person. I love you so much and rarely let you know that. Please give my love to the rest of the family. I will try to call you soon.

Cousin Cis

5:08 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To John`s family,

Just last week we had a diner, and spoke of the things we were going to tackle over the coming week....
He was a great guy, and a joy to work with. Straight shooter, no two about it. I wish I had more words to take away some of your grief.
John Zwets, PB UAE

9:26 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you to all of you who have shared their hearts with us! I am John's little sister, Judith Reynolds. Your kind and loving words have helped each of us deal with this sad loss in our lives. We send the love back to you and thank you for loving John as you have.
God's blessings to each of you,
Judith Reynolds

12:01 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dianne:

I am a bit digitally handicapped so I am responding to the original e-mail.

I learned this last Monday night Tawan time (early am Sunday US) of the tragic news about John. It was relayed by a former work superintendent of mine (THSRC) who I set up with John for Dubai through Bob Mues who was a close cycling friend of John's.

I am neither a hash friend or a biking friend my gig is rugby; however I am a friend of John's whose brief and scattered contact with him in my 5+ years here in Taiwan with THSRC left me surprised at the emotion I felt at the sad news. Truly as many have said the world is a lessor place without John in it.

I met John when he was sent to assist on a large and contentious change order in THSRC. I was told he was coming before I met him and being a bit growly about how little assistance we had to date on this complicated THSRC issue I told the people in charge "Don't send him if he hasn't read my report on the situation".

On the following Tuesday this tall lanky hgu steps into my office and I immediately said "Who are you?" and went into a tirade about how THSRC didn't know anything, was a real pain, never gave the Contracts any support blah blah blah. I really was a rude viscious sour so and so.

Then I asked John, "Did you read my report?"

And of course John in his typical Southern gentleman approach to life said "Yes, and I liked what you wrote." So I said, Let's get to work"..

He was the best thing since sliced bread for me on that job. We worked together only 2~3 weeks but he fit right in with all the tunnel stiffs (ours was mostly a tunnel job and that is my background) and our Friday night "Board Meetings" drinking beer in the Lily Hotel (the only place in town to handle 12 or 15 of us) John really liked (that is where the work superintendent I sent John in Dubai came from).

In any event it is a real loss but seeing all the e-mails makes me realize how lucky I was to meet him and be friends with him for the time we had.

I sure could have learned a few lessons from him about dealing with life.

He spoke often about his daughters and as an older (I am 64) unmarried with 2 kids we always asked and talked about the kids.

My best to all of John's family.

Roger Rothenburger

6:10 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John Roberts was a number of things to my family. He was the oldest brother of my wife Judith, He was a uncle of hero status to my children and he was my brother in law. John will forever be very high on my list of most favorite people. As I read through these comments I am not surprised to see a common reoccuring theme of his attributes. John's very presence brought a quite confidence to any setting, his opinions were confident and educated, when he spoke I listened. He was always warm and open minded, always willing to take on an adventure. Whether in the mountains for a long weekend or on an extended back country camping trip in Yellowstone, having John around always made me feel a liitle more safe. There are not many people that I would enjoy sharing a tent with for 5 days in the wilderness but John is one that is top of the list. I enjoyed our long paddles on the quite lakes of Quetico and the Boundary waters of Minn., chasing bears out of our campsite and watching moose. I will never forget his first trout on a fly rod on Cache Creek in the Lamar Vally of Yellowstone NP, or hooking a pampano while exploring Florida Bay. I am blessed to have had him as a brother in law and I will always carry with me his sense of adventure. In many ways I aspire to be like him.

To his girls we love you very much.

To Dianne, Scott, Judith and Jimmy. Johns manner and Character is testimony to your heritage and your upbringing, you bless us all.

But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They wll soar on wings like eagles; They will run and not grow weary, they will walk but not grow faint. ISAIAH 40:31

Forrest Reynolds

1:50 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Diane

Thanks. I for sure wanted his daughters to know how much he spoke about them, the one playing basketball and the grandikds etc and how we traded information on families a lot versus a considerable amount of job talk.

John and I also exchanged a lot of books back and forth that we both read mostly WWII history, Korea War, Vietnam, etc.

I recently had lost a copy of the Path Between the Seas John had loaned me(he was headed for Panama Canal job after Dubai and he had mentioned taking Bob Mues and I) and Ireplaced it with one purchased in the U.S. I had read it years ago and discussed it with him some. I now have 2 copies of it.

I am headed for work deep into Mainland China and in packing yesterday I found the one John had loaned me. Made me stop and think a moment.

Roger

1:20 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pamela,Gretchen,and Rachel,

I have watched the three of you grow since your birth.

Pamela - I came back from Germany while your dad was in Viet Nam. You were only weeks old and such a little thing when I first saw you.

Gretchen - When I came back from Viet Nam I was soon out to your home to see your mom and dad. You were already a cute little thing.

Rachel - When I came back from Washington, DC, I got to know you too.

I have watched the three of you grow through the years. Whenever Paula and I were home, we always got together with your mom and dad. The first thing that we talked about (in great detail) was Pamela, Gretchen, Rachel, Trey and Dana and usually in that order. I have watched the three of you grow from litle girls into self-confident, productive, beautiful women.

Daddies give their little girls self-confidence and esteme, not moms. Your father gave you our southern culture, your esteme and his timeless love. When you look at yourselves and your sisters you will always be looking at your dad.

I miss him too.

Ed

2:26 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Although I never knew or met John, as a employee of PB he was family. Sometimes we wonder why these things happen. We don't always have the right answers to give. I know the lost is great, someone lost a husband, a devoted father and a friend. My prayers will be with you all. May God bless and keep you in his arms now and forever. My heart felt condolence goes out to John's family and fellow workers here at Parsons.

5:14 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

All relatives, children and friends:

With great sense of bereavement, I note the sad and untimely demise of John Jackson Roberts in UAE on 22nd January. It is hard to believe that destiny, at times, be so cruel as to snatch away such an endearing person and at so young an age. It is a great loss for every one who has been associated with him. He would always be remembered for his star performance on various projects for PB where he spent a good part of his life. He continued to be a professional of high order till the end of his life.

My heart‑felt condolences to members of his family (Father: James, Step‑mother: Mary Jane, Daughters: Pamela, Gretchen and Rackel, Grandchildren: Jake, Neeley and Luke; and all others close to him.

S S Chakraborty
Chairman
Second Vivekananda Bridge Tollway Co. Pvt. Ltd.
57 Nehru Place, 4th Floor, New Delhi, India
Tel: +91-11-26431915/ 26286526
Fax: +91-11-26281898

6:59 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I knew John from GT, Kappa Sigma. It has been a long while. Nothing but great memories. My prayers are for John and his family. Ron Wensel.

11:01 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pamela,Gretchen,Rachel - there are no words to convey my hurt and pain for you now. All I know is my faith that your Dad has stepped into eternity and one day you will celebrate with him in heaven. Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see and faith is what will carry us through these days. With every ounce of my body I wish I could say or do something to ease this pain. You honor his memory as a father with your lives - each of you as an example of his love and goodness. As you love your children and nieces and nephews your Dad is a part of their souls who will always live with each of you. Each of you in your own ways carry pieces of your Dad that you will cherish. I know this is a rambling stream of thoughts but I love each of you so much and will be here for you in any way I can now and the days yet to come. Let me try to end with some thoughts from St. Paul - the Lord causes all the things to work together for the good of those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose for them. God bless each of you and your Dad and may the Lord make his face to shine upon you and give you peace now and forevermore.

7:50 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My deepest sympathies to Nancy,the girls,and all of John's family and friends throughout the world that he touched with his charm and personality. The news of his passing tore at my heart as it did to so many of us.
I am honored to be a Kappa Sigma fraternity brother of John Roberts forever. We certainly had some great times together at Georgia Tech in the late sixties. I pulled out my old pledge book today and found a commitment that John had certainly lived up to in his life. It reads:
"The Star and Crescent shall not be worn by every man, but only by him who is worthy to wear it. He must be a gentleman...a man of honor and courage...a man of zeal, yet humble...an intelligent man...a man of truth...one who tempers action with wisdom and, above all else, one who walks in the light of God."
My eyes keep welling up with tears of sorrow as I write this and I have to scroll back to the pictures of his smile to get me through. He will be missed by so many of us who knew him. May the thoughts and prayers of so many of us show the love that is needed at this time in life.
Fraternally a Brother forever,
Don "Cooter" Tolbert
AEKDB

11:34 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Max Crumit

I feel a need to address John's daughters. You do not know me, but John and I developed a close working relationship at Florida's Turnpike many years ago. He was not only a counterpart of mine, but he was also a mentor. When he went overseas we lost contact.

Recently (about a month ago) we again started to communicate via e-mail. He was the same old John...humble, adventurous, and professional.

What I want to say is this...the best compliment someone can pay is to be missed...John will certainly be that.

I have a twelve year old son...and John would be embarrassed to hear this, but if my son could grow up to possess the exact character and countenance of your father...I would forever feel that I succeeded as a father.

He has inspired many...I know you must feel very proud.

5:32 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I never met John but I did see him on a few occassions in Taiwan.
Without being presumptuous I attach a poem; I hope that the words bring some comfort and shed a ray of hope; it was originally written for my uncle.
Why have I written?
I had been in Taiwan for 4 weeks when our only child, a 6 month old boy, died of dengue fever in the Phils; for me it was the end of my world. THSRC C270 staff and a great many people either wrote or said kind words; their compassion both touched and affected me deeply. There is hope and meaning to life as I discovered afterwards. Since that fateful day we have been blessed with 3 daughters with a fourth one pending.


After Hours

With body tired and mind at rest,
One final journey remains,
With spirit guide and soul all blessed,
And no more earthly pains.

Safe in the realm where angels bide,
Free to wander with health restored,
And sit with loved ones by your side,
In heaven you'll never be bored.

We view this life as - just one chance,
Three score years your goal to earn,
But look again with an altered glance,
There is so much more to learn.

The etheric mist is a vibrant home,
Golden orbs in a brilliant white beam,
With power to transcend and a license to roam,
You will visit us whilst we dream.

And in a guise cloaked from our view,
Unconditional love will unfold,
And answers to the questions of "Why, what and who?",
To us will soon be told.

Think not of life as cruel but kind,
With karma the driving force,
Keep it at the forefront of your mind,
For it will map the course,

That leads us back to the heavenly domain,
Where comfort awaits in great store,
To vanquish human desires - so vain,
With peace forever more.

Yet on this earth plane we will grieve our loss,
Such pain is hard to bear,
Until the next time when our paths will cross,
Goodbye, God bless, take care!

Adonai

8:33 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so sad for the loss of my uncle. He was a great man. My heart aches for my cousins,for my family and for all his friends. He will be missed every day.

I feel so blessed to have spent wonderful quality time with him. He was always so fun to be around. I will always remember when he came to SF when I lived there and we went sailing, hiking and wine tasting. We truly had a blast.

To my cousins - he adored you with everything he had. He talked about you all the time and beemed with pride when bragging about each of you.

Mom- I know you had a special relationship with him and my heart goes out to you. I love you very much and I know how much you loved him.

Big Daddy, Scott, Judith, Nancy - I love you guys and I am thinking about you. I am so proud to be in this family.

Amanda (John's neice)

9:25 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

John was a good friend. We had many good times in Hsinchu during our Hash runs and the celebrations that followed. I will truely miss him, God bless you John and your family.

5:32 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

My parents, George Palmer and Peggy Palmer Britt were very close friends with him and Nancy. I grew up with the girls. I would like to extend my prayers to his family and especially to Pamela, Gretchen and Rachel. May God bless each of you - -

Gretchen Palmer Irons and family

8:10 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pamela, Gretchen and Rachel,
I want you to know that it will be an honor and a priviledge to sing "The Lord's Prayer" for your father's funeral service. When we learned of John's fatal accident, Mike and I were grief stricken, and we just want you to realize how much we share in your sorrow. When I pulled up this web site and read the many wonderful letters written about your Dad to you and your family, I realized that we were not alone in feeling such a deep sense of loss. John obviously made a lasting impression on many people who will remember him with great fondness and admiration. I wish there was something we could do to ease your pain and suffering. Try to have peace in knowing that you Dad lived a rich and fullfilling life, with many friends and adventures along the way, and looking down from heaven, wishes the same for each of you. He enjoyed his life, but also gave back to the world in abundance, by sharing his many talents ...spiritually, mentally and physically. He has been an inspiration to so many people, and we know how very proud you must feel! Our hearts go out to all of your dear family! Have faith that God is always with you and will help you through these difficult times.
your friends, with love and heartfelt sympathy, Mr. and Mrs. Roberts, Stacey and Chris

9:28 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

To all the Roberts family, May Hope, Faith and Wonderful memories be with you at this time of "searching" your inner thoughts and the why of this situation.

I am fortunate and very blessed to have many memories of John through a time of maturing from "college kids" to responsible adults. This remarkable journey began in the fall of 1965 at Georgia Tech. It was facilitated by our membership in the Kappa Sigma fraternity and it's brotherhood. As I reflect on the memories John and I created I am tempted to list a few. But it is not a few I would be compelled to list. Instead, it would be too many to relate. I am very proud to have created those memories with John. Foregoing such a list is probably wise as we together would later question our maturity and judgement in creating some of those memories-but created they were and, for me, they will be forever remembered and cherished.

John was a dedicated, committed, loving and proud father. It was with him that I progressed through those early years of fatherhood. We together watched our girls grow into responsible adults to be very proud of. My girls were saddened to hear of John's passing. They immediately recalled fond memories of weekend visits with the "Roberts Girls".

To John, my roommate in those early college years and their summers, the best man for both my marriages and a friend to share life's journey with; keep on that "running" to that brighter future and next challenge as I know you want all of us to do. With you gone John, know that a piece of our lives is missing. But it is not gone as it lives on in the memories you so graciously created with us all. Know also you are my "roommate and brother" in my heart and mind forever.

Marc Roach

2:53 PM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

4 months after this Hshinchu Hash run that the Major had hared, I left the Island as my contract was up. That very night John had this hat, I said "I like that hat".

He said it was very special and was made only for the High Speed Rail crew, and it meant a lot to him for the pride of the engineers he managed. He then smiled, took if off his head and gave it to me as a going away gift. I finally put it on last Sunday and went to the range here in Texas.

I fired a 21 shotgun salute in his honor as my way of saying goodbye to a great man, foremost friend, family man and Vietnam Vet I didn't have the opportunity to share exotic trips and the like, but spent many a Wednesday nights having a few beers talking anything but work. That was his style.

He always put others first.

7:40 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pamela, Gretchen, Rachel

Thinking of you and the rest of your family

Love Nick and Alexandra

9:42 AM  

Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is not a day that goes by where I don't think of you and miss you. You will always remain in my heart.

Love,
Barb

6:31 AM  

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